How to make kids love studying….

Are you worried about today’s high pressure environment around your kids and wondering how to make them get to #studying_better then, you are not going wrong because I myself used to wonder and worry about the same until some time back. Today’s education system has a really vast curriculum. Its true that with time and advancement the pool of knowledge is increasing day by day but, is it really the pace with which we can make our kids absorb everything like a sponge?

The answer is no.

Eventhough kids may be very intelligent but the pressure still mounts on them. You might love to see them scoring A’s always, but still they need help.

The best way to help them achieve this is by giving them the right direction and environment to do so. Here are a few ways in which we can improve their system of working:

  1. Write some beautiful motivational quotes and stick them in their room. They have a tendency to read everything around them. This in turn will build positive atmosphere around them.

  2. Motivate them to contribute half-an-hour to an hour daily so that they are fresh in their minds with the portion studied.

  3. Make a time table of subjects to be studied on the day-to-day basis and stick their favourite fruit or vegetable images around or besides the subject. This will make them love the subject as a visual impact on their minds.

  4. Take out time to talk to them like friends on daily basis and talk about the subject you like studying. This will motivate them in friendly manner to absorb good things from you. Remember kids have a copy brain so what they see and hear impacts them.

  5. Try to make studying fun like a game and to be played in a sportive manner. This way they gasp better.

  6. Try to ask them to become a teacher and explain a topic to you. At times try making mistakes so they can correct you. Believe me this is something they love to do, in turn they understand the topic better.

  7. Encourage them to be participative in the activities at school and if possible reward them with small gifts. No matter how ordinary or small the gift may be, kids always love them and get motivated to do better.

  8. When they practice something or show you something they have completed nicely, reward them by writing excellent in the comment or give them stars for them. Believe it or not this really makes them happy.

  9. When they are stuck with something or they are not able to memorize or get through, tell them how you have done it in your past or may be writing them multiple times might help them better.

  10. Position yourself as a motivator in their life guiding with the tips used by you in your past. Tell them nothing is impossible and they can achieve whatever they want with little efforts on daily basis from their side.

Hope this can be of help to all my friends. If so please do not forget to like this.

Better life comes with better choice.


How to balance lifestyle during festivals..

Thinking of an ideal body is everyone’s dream but somehow we really get carried away by the charm of festival season. It is not difficult to say that we can easily keep ourselves motivated by a few simple steps for this season:

1. Sleep is an essential part of a healthy mind and body so the first thing to begin with is nice regulated appropriate seven to eight hours of sleep must be a lifestyle. No matter going to bed on time is a good way.

2. We have all heard “early to bed and early to rise…” we must wake up early and definitely take up some form of exercise atleast for sixty to ninety minutes everyday or atleast six days a week.

3. You are what you eat, very true. Temptations to eat all the rich, fried and sweet things is something no one is able to resist. But there is an easy way to keep a check on this. Every time you get tempted to do so make sure you eat a citrus fruit like orange, sweet lime etc before gorging on them. Benefits, clear flawless skin and less hungry at the same time .

4. A glass of lemon juice with some honey is one great immunity booster as well keeps you away from weight gain.

5. Use few drops aromatic oil in a bowl of water and keep it in your room. It keeps you calm and keeps mosquitoes away.

6. Children tend to eat more often because of plenty of snacks being available. Advising them to wash or sanitize their hands is another important thing to focus on. This will keep them away from stomach upsets.


How to make your Diwali day perfect..

Festivals season is the most welcoming changes that we love and being a part of it is really beautiful though, for a woman it is hectic too because we have a lot of responsibility as well on our shoulders of makeing it perfect for others. Let me tell you the secret of makeing it perfect for your family and yourself.

We know women love multitasking but it’s better to make your agenda clear before starting, that means a well planned and executed day is always better.

Start Diwali cleaning atleast fifteen day in advance. This way you have plenty of time to take up one thing at a time.

Now let’s start with Dhanteras:

Dhanteras is suppose to be an auspicious day to buy new things. It is believed that buying new things on this day brings good luck and financial blessing to the family.

Challenges, the market place is more crowded and it take time for you to buy what you want.

To solve this problem it’s best to shop in the morning.

Also if unable to decide on what to buy the best investment would be to buy small gold biscuits. It comes in various sizes the most popular being one gram, two gram, ten gram.

If you are done with the shopping for Dhanteras then you can finish putting your festive set of curtains and decorations to finish the final touch. Put the Diwali candellier and decorative lights. Let the house shine.

Now Choti Diwali or Narak niwaran chaturdashi:

By now the Diwali delicacies should be over but if you still have something still left to be done, it is good to finish it today.

Finally the Diwali day or lakshmi pooja :

It’s good to start early if you tend to prepare special eatables for the day. After you finish the cooking part, do your arrangements for the lakshmi pooja and finish off with rangoli. Do not eat too much oily food because you need to look good in your Diwali dress flaunting the best of you.

If you are done with the rangoli then put your flower torans and decorations for the Diwali day.

This should be over by afternoon. The rest of the time should be used to relax a little so that you have energy for the evening.

Now light dias, dress up nicely in your beautiful dress and flaunt the best of you attending to the guests and going to your neighbours and friends place.

Have a wonderful Diwali friends.